Guidelines

Thank you for considering Graylyn to host your wedding event!  We are looking forward to meeting you and helping you create a timeless and memorable occasion at the Estate.  The following information will answer many of the questions you have about your wedding ceremony and reception, or reception alone.  Please contact us to discuss your special event in more detail.  After booking your wedding at Graylyn, your Special Event Coordinator will be happy to recommend area vendors such as bakers, florists, and musicians.  

Wedding Ceremony Fee:

Up to 75 Guests $1,000
76 ~ 125 Guests $1,500
126 ~ 175 Guests $2,000
176 ~ 225 Guests $2,500
226 ~ 300 Guests $3,000

The wedding ceremony fee includes the use of space, white folding chairs, and tables for the guestbook and gifts.  Brides are also entitled to have their portrait taken in the Manor House or on the grounds of Graylyn, which is a $1,500.00 value.  Space for your rehearsal and dressing rooms will be provided, subject to availability.

Reception Options:

Brunch Buffet ~ $34
Lunch ~ $31
Light Hors d'oeuvres ~ $39
Heavy Hors d'oeuvres ~ $59
Dinner ~ $69

4 Hour Beer & Wine Bar Package ~ $29.50
4 Hour Signature Bar Package ~ $38.50
4 Hour Select Bar Package ~ $44.50
4 Hour Premium Bar Package ~ $48.50

Brunch service must conclude by 1:00 p.m., Lunch service by 3:00 p.m., and Light Hors d'oeuvres service by 4:00 p.m. Fresh flowers and two votive candles per banquet table may also be provided however, specific flowers cannot be guaranteed. There is a two hour maximum time limit on food service for buffet and hors d'oeuvre receptions. For a light or heavy hors d'oeuvre reception, select individually priced hors d'oeuvres to meet the minimum. Food and beverage may not be removed from property, and the minimum for your reception option must be met. All food and beverage is subject to 7.75% sales tax and 20% gratuity.

Event Space Charge

Graylyn is a beautiful former private residence, and the perfect space for your event depends on your guest count and set-up needs.  Suggested spaces and their rental fees for a Saturday evening event are as follows.  Please ask about our event space rental for events held Sunday through Friday or daytime Saturday.

Living Room Wing
Hors d’Oeuvre Reception: Up to 230 Guests
Plated/Buffet Reception: Up to 180 Guests

Living Room Wing & Dining Room Wing
Hors d’Oeuvre Reception: 230-375 Guests
Plated/Buffet Reception: 180-250 Guests

Bar information

Graylyn requires that you have one bar per 75 guests. You will have the option to select your bar package depending on the type and tier of alcohol that you wish to offer to your guests.  Special event bars may be customized, using our extensive wine and beverage lists.

Securing Graylyn for Your Special Day

After you have made the decision to host your wedding events at Graylyn, notify the Manager of Catering Sales of the number of guests you will guarantee and your space requirements.  The space is reserved for 10 days, pending receipt of your signed contract and a non-refundable deposit of 50% of the estimated food and beverage cost (excluding tax & gratuity).  Graylyn does not hold space without a contract. 

Sleeping Rooms

Graylyn boasts 98 unique and comfortable guestrooms, each different from the next.  The estate was once a private home, and the accommodations reflect that history as room sizes, layouts, and décor are all different.  Please speak with us if you are interested in securing a block of rooms for your guests.
Guest rooms are subject to availability.

*Please note that Graylyn cannot guarantee specific rooms, but will take your requests into consideration.

Payment Schedule

Within 10 days of your receipt of the contract, it must be signed and returned to Graylyn along with a
Non-refundable deposit of 50% of the estimated food and beverage cost, excluding tax, and gratuity. 
Approximately two weeks before your event, you will receive an estimate of all charges that are due. 
Final estimated payment must be received no later than 10 days prior to the event. 
Graylyn must receive your estimated payment before the event can begin.  In the event that you have over-paid, Graylyn will issue you a refund.  If there are additional charges, you will receive an invoice
to be due 10 days after the event, or upon receipt of the invoice.

Vendor Policies

Vendors have two hours to deliver and decorate prior to the start time of your event.  Decorations
provided by vendors must be removed within a timely manner.  Our Guest Services department will assist vendors with regards to the best locations for loading and unloading.  Parking or driving on the grass is not allowed under any circumstance.

Wedding Director

Graylyn strongly suggests that you utilize the services of a professional wedding director.  Your director will assist you in the coordination of the details of your ceremony and wedding-related events not associated with services provided by Graylyn.

Florists

Florists must bring their arrangements to Graylyn already assembled.  If your florist would like to rent
space to arrange flowers, the space can be rented at a fee of $300.00 per day.

Musicians

Music and dancing are welcome and encouraged; however, all music must conclude by 11:00 p.m.
Outdoor music is allowed without amplification and must conclude by 10:00 p.m. 

Parking

Graylyn offers self-parking for your guests behind the Manor House.  Should you wish to offer valet parking during your event, Graylyn offers valet attendants at $15.00 per hour, per attendant.