Thanksgiving - The Middle Child of the Holidays

Have you ever thought about the holiday trio - Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas - as siblings? Who is in the middle? That's right, Thanksgiving.


We often hear about the middle child syndrome. The first-born receiving all the attention and treated as the only child until the next baby is born. The second child is treated as the baby until the third child comes along...The second child is left in the middle - neither the oldest nor the youngest. The middle child seems to be left out...missed...but, hopefully, not forgotten.


After reading a book to my oldest child - The Ugly Pumpkin, a book about a pumpkin in search of his true belonging and discovers it is not what he expected. I read the note about the author, Dave Horowitz. He tied the story to Thanksgiving. I wanted to share his thoughts with you about the Thanksgiving holiday. He feels Thanksgiving is "under appreciated, the middle child of the holidays. Without all the glitz of the Halloween or Christmas seasons, Thanksgiving quietly reminds us to be grateful - not only for what we have, but for where we've been, who we are and what is to come."


Thanksgiving is left alone without the fanfare of Halloween and Christmas. It seems the holiday is almost forgotten. Do you ever see retailers decorating for Thanksgiving? No. Thanksgiving is skipped altogether. We see decorations from Halloween straight to Christmas.


Remember me, Thanksgiving. The holiday of gratitude, family and traditions. Take some time from the hustle and bustle of the holiday season to reflect on the past and give thanks.